Illusion of Light

“The longing for Paradise is man’s longing not to be man.” 

                                                   -Milan Kundera, The Lightness of Being 

 

Mario’s body lies still: pale skin, eyes shut, dreams

of chasing the sun. Mario’s face glistens in daylight

the day of his wake. I want to ask him, Was it that easy to leave 

us? My aunt opted for an open casket, so I look at his coffin face, 

study his resting smile. Remember him, my aunt says. 

I focus on the speckles of water on his forehead. 

The last of what remains of him slides down, 

                                                                                    drips.

  *

 

            Mario. Just call me Mario. Not 

uncle, uncle makes me feel old, he says. Mario who 

            uses his hands to cook, to plant, to fix things, to pull 

out a lighter from his pocket, turn the flint wheel, create a growing 

            spark. And with his other hand, he’d hold a glass pipe:     

His mouth would open and he’d inhale heat— Mario,

            who chases the sun, when he’s so      

                                    high.

 *

 

                                    High, high, high—      He chants, 

                                    lifting me up               into the sky, 

                                    when I point               to the palm trees 

                                    around us, I ask:         how high 

                                  will they grow?            He gargles laughter 

                                    in the backyard,          sets me down, 

                                    he wipes sweat off      his forehead 

                                    with his left arm,        rays of sun 

                                                                        strike his body.                                                                                                           

                                    I think he’s on fire. 

 * 

 

Through the kitchen window headlights from a passing car 

                                                 strikes my aunt’s torso. She looks outside into darkness, 

waits for Mario to appear. She picks up the phone from the kitchen table, dials, asks—

                                                 is my husband, Mario Ramirez, in the hospital?

She spells out his name: M-A-R-I-O R-A-M-I-R-E-Z, yes      

                                                 Ramirez with a Z at the end. She exhales, bows her head, places

the phone down. Cars keep passing by, beams of a lighthouse coming in and out

 

 *

 

                                                                                    After the funeral, our black attire paints                                                                                            

                                                                                    the November sky. In his backyard 

                                                                                    we stand like his plants: charred                                                                    

                                                                                    with dropped bodies. The freeze from last 

                                                                                    night took them, too; my aunt looks around 

                                                                                    at the backyard shaking her head: 

                                                                                    it’s like if they knew. 

 

 

The warmth of the afternoon 

hits my neck as I walk up 

to one of his palm trees and 

peel off dead leaves. 

 *

 

The call comes            

from my aunt: 

                                    Mario’s dead

We drive alongside

the night, in the distance 

revolving red and blue 

lights come into our truck,

a white sheet 

on a rolling stretcher. 

My youngest cousin 

jumps like a sparkler 

into my mother’s arms when we

get out the car. We stand outside 

watch the flash of the lights break the sky. 

 

*

 

At my brother’s college graduation party, Mario begs 

           me to take him to get more beer. My aunt shouts at him: 

haven’t you had enough? He laughs and makes a joke, 

           babe come on. Outside I follow him, he lights

a pipe, and looks up at the sky. Mario who collects stars 

                                                                                               in his eyes when he’s high. 

 

*

 

A year after his death, we go through items 

in storage. We separate into three different 

carts: keeps, donations, and trash. My aunt 

sees me looking at the only pot she took from 

the backyard. She says, What’s losing one more 

thing? Take it. I grab the deep heavy pot, hug it 

with both hands, lift with my knees like Mario 

taught me, and load it into my car. At home, I 

plant a pothos plant inside it and keep it next to 

my window. There it grows reaching                         

                                                                                    and                  reaching


I remember I found him in the garage two years 

before his passing, pieces of an orange ceramic pot 

and plants scattered all over the floor. 

A bag of fresh mulch and dirt on the table

an hour glass spilling onto the floor. Mario standing 

in the center, stumbling towards me, tossing me the keys, 

telling me: you drive. I put an arm around him 

and I lift him. In the car he says, don’t grow up. 

Then, he puts his head outside 

the car window, his right arm shoots out too,

grasping the air passing through him, 

he laughs whisky out, I turn to look at him 

and I’m blinded by the light

in his face reflecting 

into my eyes.